An article in The Economist (March 30th, 2019, p. 67) said, in the opening paragraph, “Everyone can think of inspiring leaders from history, but managers who think they can base their style on Nelson Mandela, or Elizabeth I, are suffering from delusions of grandeur.”
First, did the reference to Mandela and Elizabeth I tip you off that The Economist is a British magazine? More importantly, do the words “leaders” and “managers” suggest that leaders are managers? Or that managers aspire to be leaders? It got me thinking. Which means it nudged me to take out my Etymological Dictionary on the origins of words.
Leader – One who conducts others on a journey or course of action, keeping watch from above and providing defense, protection and guidance for the action below.
Manager – One who handles, controls, or administers a journey or course of action. Note: the word “manage” is derived from “manus”, Latin for hand, as in “handling or steering a horse”, i.e., holding the reins.
So a manager is in control and steering the action, while a leader is protecting and defending the actors. Sounds like two different roles to me. Which job would you want?
If you are a manager and want to be a leader, here’s a tip from that article: Being “competent” involves one important skill – the ability to have dialogues, or what we call Understanding Conversations. This kind of leadership “communication competence” has three important ingredients:
- The ability to listen and understand, sometimes called empathy. “Team leadership requires having sufficient empathy to understand the concerns of others.”
- Dialogue with people ‘below’. “Employees are more likely to be engaged with their work if they get frequent feedback from their bosses and if they are involved in setting their own goals.”
- The ability to course-correct. “When things go wrong, as they inevitably will, a good leader also needs the flexibility to adjust their strategy.” This would be done in dialogues with others, both above and below the leader.
The article made some other good points:
- On competence and charisma: “The biggest mistake is to equate leadership entirely with charisma,” and, “Competence is more important than charisma.”
- On competence and confidence: “People tend to assume that confident individuals are competent, when there is no actual relationship between the two qualities.”
- Most fun quote (read it twice): “Charisma plus egomania minus competence is a dangerous formula.” (This reminded me of someone who is much in the media these days.)
The article also mentioned a book by Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, which should be a best-seller, based on the title alone: “Why Do So Many Incompetent Men Become Leaders? (and how to fix it)”. That one should be jumping off the shelves!